The only reason to use a 70/30 mix would be if you expect to need freeze protection to -84 F. I doubt it gets that cold in Arkansas.

The boiling temp with 70/30 is about 10 degrees higher than 50/50 but if it makes the engine run 10F hotter than you gained nothing while paying more for antifreeze you didn't need.
A 50/50 mix won't freeze until -34 F and I think you will be pretty safe.
Whether or not to use distilled water is a personal thing. I never do, but then I know some who think its cheap insurance to not get unwanted 'stuff' in the cooling system. It depends somewhat upon the water quality wherever you live. If you do use bottled water make sure it is truly distilled and not de-ionized since the later can have de-ionizing chemicals in it which you don't want either.