The first one is the
tranny mount, which is actually an in-stock part at most parts stores.
Not too sure on the second one, but there's a guy over on the mustangii.net forums who has been doing V8 engine mount rebuilding for a while. I've seen his mounts and trust them completely. Fortunately for me, the mounts on my V8 are still good, and I think I have a spare set somewhere in my parts stash...
With a bit of bashing, the Milodon pan is supposed to work on a II. Most pans won't clear the steering rack or starter with the Mustang II bellhousing.
You could use the later 5.0 bellhousing, but it complicates things if you decide you want to run headers, and the AOD bellhousing (if you want to run an overdrive auto) will REALLY cause some aggravation unless you enjoy beating the heck out of the firewall for fitment.
I'm running a cheap Flex-a-lite 14" on mine. Don't know how it compares to others, but I'm quite happy with its performance.