I tried that, still didn't work.. but... now I feel like an idiot here...
First, in my own poor defense, we just got the car used.. no owners manual.. keep that in mind
Apparantly my wife caused the car not to start, when she was still in the car she pushed that flashing red light on the dash, wondering if it was a button. I find now it was, it turns the alarm system on. If you don't lock up and just get out and get back in without disarming the car won't start. For some reason, the alarm never went off until later last night when I went back into the car to check some more things out. Then I caught on. She goes, 'I wonder if I did that when I pushed that red light', I pushed it again and the car started right up.
Oh man, you guys are never gonna take me seriously again

Anyone else ever do that???