i didnt buy a kit... bought things seperately... This was my first and biggest mistake

.... I bought fog lights from some website.... Wire Harness from Velocity Mustang Performance... And my switch from
www.rockauto.com... I just got back from a ford dealer and they do not sell that kind of connector... Which is weird as hell cuz i bought this freaking light from the ford company... Atleast thats what it said on the package it was enclosed in... The fella told me to call a salvage yard and cut the connector off... So im gunna have to call around and see if they have it... Ill send an email to Velocity, they seem to be pretty understanding. Any advice on what to do?
Thanks.
H3lls