i definitely share your pain as i went through something very similar with my 2012 GT.
my special order car was built 5/30 of last year and it took until mid July for me to have it shipped and for me to actually get it. the reason being? ask Ford. i went through so many people trying to get answers to which i never got any. my salesman got involved heavily because he was miffed that this kind of order (priority 1 no less) was being completely brushed aside. so i wasn't getting answers, he wasn't getting answers, the dealership manager wasn't getting answers and the regional sales manager wasn't getting answers! basically Ford corporate wasn't saying anything to anyone for some unknown reason. the best they could say, "just wait it out as hard as it is, unless you want to cancel." now i would be lying if i said i didn't consider cancelling and going, as i bite my tongue, with a Camaro or Challenger. i was talked out of it because i had already waited as long as i had, what was another several weeks. they have to ship it at some point! there's no choice.
in the end, i'm more than happy i waited and i dont want to say you made a bad decision, but honestly, if you already waited as long as you have then what's another few weeks? i do understand where you're coming from though, believe me.
2012 Kona Blue GT Premium Mods: Roush Axle-Backs / Airaid CAI / Bama 93P Tune / Redline Hood Lifts / Tri-bar Pony Floor Mats / Headlight Splitters /
GT500 Splash Guards / Exterior Light Tint / GT350 Quarter-Window Covers / Escort Redline Radar Detector