Don't underestimate what a good body shop can do. I had a black metallic car get smacked and the repair was done so I could not tell. Try the new door and see how good it matches. If. OT happy then have it repaired at a body shop of your choosing. They screwed up no doubt. But I seriously doubt you will get a new car out of it. Trust me. It can be fixed so that you will never physically be able to tell.
Silver 2015 Ecoboost Premium w/ PP