Sorry, did not mean to condescend.
I see your point. Im in my 30's and there are days which just the thought of pulling out the floor jack, jackstands, and tools to do something to the car makes my back and legs protest.
There are plenty of things I do myself on the car and around the house. But I pick and choose my battles depending if it is worth my time / frustration / investment or something I'm not comfortable with being too far over my head. Im more than willing to take on new challenges but in the end, it comes down to practicality, not laziness.