Well, I'm guessing this thread will be locked shortly.....
Anyway, back on topic. I think what WhiteBird and Mud said is about what you are going to get out of the deal.
Either let them try to repair it or pay someone of your choice to do it within their budget and move on.
Any competent body shop guy should be able to make a clean repair.
Good luck with the outcome.
That is not right and it just lets them breed more incompetence. And while you are all telling me, 'oh, just take the repair.' The funny thing is, my factory paint warranty will be null and void after this job takes place. But, it's okay because the body shop will warranty their work. Nice!! And how is that fair? Anyone?