I recall reading a article of a guy taking out the k-member and using a engine support to jack up the engine enough to get the oil pan off....either way its a lot of work...I hate to say but at this point you should think about rebuilding it or buying a remanufactured engine....You could have worn rings and valves guides and seals which will get worse over time anyways....The v6 in my 97 mustang has over 200 k on it and even though it does not smoke yet I am considering a total rebuild next spring if time and money allow....by the way I think there is a youtube video on pulling the pan but I am unsure....Good luck!!