yellow connector is the right spot. need to find out why you blow fuses. im thinking there might be a short in the tach. my 2 cts.
The temp sending unit is not connected directly to +12V but only connected to the non-CVR side of the temp gauge. You are stealing current from the temp gauge/CVR and more current through any of the gauges makes their needle move to the right. Each gauge needle pegs at about 1/4 Amp. Drawing more than 1/4 Amp by such a connection, continuously, could well damage the temp gauge. You also are limited to a max of 6V by connecting to any of the senders....tach is properly grounded and works when hooked to the temp sending unit...