First of all, NEVER let Ford update your PCM when it has a custom tune in it!!!! So now that it's too late, what can you do?
Second, don't listen to them idiots about having to get a different cai; they messed up your car as it is now.
As part of the ecu update, there is possibly a different strategy code in the pcm now, and your tune is not compatible, or the x3 thinks it is a totally different car. Your x3 is locked to your previous pcm; you still have the same physical pcm and serial number, so it should allow you to start over, so to speak. First, try to unlock the X3. If your'e able to unlock it, you might then be able to load one of the tunes back into the car. You may need to work with bama to help out as well.
Second, don't listen to them idiots about having to get a different cai; they messed up your car as it is now.
As part of the ecu update, there is possibly a different strategy code in the pcm now, and your tune is not compatible, or the x3 thinks it is a totally different car. Your x3 is locked to your previous pcm; you still have the same physical pcm and serial number, so it should allow you to start over, so to speak. First, try to unlock the X3. If your'e able to unlock it, you might then be able to load one of the tunes back into the car. You may need to work with bama to help out as well.