Correct, the red/blue wire goes onto the S terminal, this is the starting wire from the switch. Test by connecting a voltmeter to the red/blue wire at the relay, turn the switch to start position and see if you have 12 volts. If not, there is either a problem with the switch or there is a break in the red/blue wire. Try a jumper from the positive battery terminal to the S terminal on the relay and see if the starter cranks. Is the black/yellow wire connected to the relay battery terminal? You can check for voltage on the yellow wire at the switch, that is the power wire. Here's a link to a schematic if you don't already have one.
http://averagejoerestoration.com/re...agrams/1965-mustang-wiring-diagrams/1965c.jpg
http://averagejoerestoration.com/re...agrams/1965-mustang-wiring-diagrams/1965c.jpg